Building Your Customer Database: The Asset Delivery Apps Don't Want You to Have
When customers order through DoorDash, DoorDash owns the relationship. Here's how to build a customer list that's actually yours.
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Revenue
$12,450
The Uncomfortable Truth
When a customer orders through DoorDash, Uber Eats, or Grubhub, who owns that customer relationship?
Not you.
The delivery apps know:
- Customer name and contact info
- Order history and preferences
- How often they order
- What makes them reorder
You know: Someone ordered a pepperoni pizza.
According to McKinsey & Company, companies that excel at personalization generate 40% more revenue from those activities than average players. But you can't personalize if you don't know your customers.
What Customer Data Is Actually Worth
Let's do the math on a single customer:
Average restaurant customer value:
- Orders 2.3x per month (National Restaurant Association data)
- Average order: $35
- Customer lifetime: 2.5 years
- Lifetime value: $2,415
Cost to acquire a new customer:
- Through delivery apps: $0 (but you pay 25-30% forever)
- Through paid ads: $15-40 per customer
- Through direct retention: $2-5 per customer
Source: [Harvard Business Review](https://hbr.org/2014/10/the-value-of-keeping-the-right-customers) research on customer acquisition vs. retention costs
The math is clear: Keeping existing customers costs 5-25x less than acquiring new ones.
But you can't keep customers you don't know.
What You Should Be Capturing
Essential Data (Every Order)
- Email address
- Phone number
- Order history
- Order preferences
Valuable Data (When Possible)
- Birthday (for birthday promotions)
- Dietary preferences
- Favorite items
- Preferred order time
Advanced Data (Over Time)
- Response to promotions
- Reorder patterns
- Feedback and ratings
How to Actually Get This Data
1. Make Direct Ordering the Better Option
Customers won't switch channels for nothing. Give them reasons:
- Lower prices: You're saving 25% on fees - pass some to customers
- Exclusive items: Menu items only available direct
- Loyalty rewards: Points that actually mean something
- Faster service: Priority on direct orders
2. Capture at Every Touchpoint
QR Codes Everywhere:
- On every takeout bag
- On receipts
- On table tents
- On packaging
A Bitly study found QR code scans increased 433% from 2021 to 2023. Customers are trained to use them.
In-Store Signage:
"Order direct at [yourrestaurant].com - Skip the fees, get rewards"
Receipt Messages:
"Loved your meal? Order direct next time and save 10%: [URL]"
3. The Packaging Insert Strategy
This is the highest-converting tactic we've seen:
Include a card in every delivery order (including third-party):
Thanks for ordering from [Restaurant Name]!
Next time, order direct and get:
✓ 10% off your order
✓ Free loyalty rewards
✓ Same great food, better price
Scan to order direct: [QR Code]
Use code DIRECT10 for 10% off
Restaurants using this tactic report 15-30% of third-party customers convert to direct within 3 months.
What to Do With Customer Data
Automated Reorder Campaigns
Customer hasn't ordered in 30 days? Automatic email:
"Hey [Name], we miss you! Your usual [Favorite Item] is waiting. Here's 15% off your next order."
According to Mailchimp, restaurant email campaigns average 19.77% open rates - higher than most industries.
Birthday Marketing
Collect birthdays, send automated offers:
"Happy Birthday, [Name]! Enjoy a free dessert on us this week."
Birthday emails have 481% higher transaction rates than promotional emails, per Experian.
Preference-Based Upsells
Know a customer always orders vegetarian? Next email features your new vegetarian options - not the steak special.
The Technology Stack
You don't need enterprise software. You need:
1. Direct ordering platform (like DirectOrders) that captures customer data
2. Email marketing tool (Mailchimp, Klaviyo) for campaigns
3. Simple CRM (often built into your ordering platform)
DirectOrders includes:
- Automatic customer data capture on every order
- Built-in email campaign tools
- Customer segmentation by order history
- Full data export (it's your data - take it anytime)
Your 30-Day Action Plan
Week 1:
- Set up direct ordering (if not done)
- Create packaging inserts for all orders
- Set up "welcome" email for new direct customers
Week 2:
- Add QR codes to all physical touchpoints
- Create first-time direct order discount code
- Set up 30-day "we miss you" automated email
Week 3:
- Start collecting birthdays at checkout
- Set up birthday automation
- Analyze which third-party customers convert
Week 4:
- Review data, segment customers by value
- Create VIP program for top 20% of customers
- Plan ongoing content calendar
The Bottom Line
Every order through a delivery app is a customer you're renting. Every direct order is a customer you own.
In 2026, the restaurants winning are those building real relationships with real customer data - not hoping the algorithms keep sending traffic.
DirectOrders captures customer data automatically on every order. [See how it works](https://www.directorders.com/demo).
Frequently Asked Questions
Delivery apps like DoorDash intentionally keep customer data because these customers are their asset, not yours. When someone orders through DoorDash, the app owns the relationship - they have the name, contact info, and order history. You only see an order number. This is by design to keep you dependent on their platform.
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