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Building Your Customer Database: The Asset Delivery Apps Don't Want You to Have

When customers order through DoorDash, DoorDash owns the relationship. Here's how to build a customer list that's actually yours.

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Jan 16, 2026·7 min read
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The Uncomfortable Truth

When a customer orders through DoorDash, Uber Eats, or Grubhub, who owns that customer relationship?

Not you.

The delivery apps know:

  • Customer name and contact info
  • Order history and preferences
  • How often they order
  • What makes them reorder

You know: Someone ordered a pepperoni pizza.

According to McKinsey & Company, companies that excel at personalization generate 40% more revenue from those activities than average players. But you can't personalize if you don't know your customers.

What Customer Data Is Actually Worth

Let's do the math on a single customer:

Average restaurant customer value:

  • Orders 2.3x per month (National Restaurant Association data)
  • Average order: $35
  • Customer lifetime: 2.5 years
  • Lifetime value: $2,415

Cost to acquire a new customer:

  • Through delivery apps: $0 (but you pay 25-30% forever)
  • Through paid ads: $15-40 per customer
  • Through direct retention: $2-5 per customer

Source: [Harvard Business Review](https://hbr.org/2014/10/the-value-of-keeping-the-right-customers) research on customer acquisition vs. retention costs

The math is clear: Keeping existing customers costs 5-25x less than acquiring new ones.

But you can't keep customers you don't know.

What You Should Be Capturing

Essential Data (Every Order)

  • Email address
  • Phone number
  • Order history
  • Order preferences

Valuable Data (When Possible)

  • Birthday (for birthday promotions)
  • Dietary preferences
  • Favorite items
  • Preferred order time

Advanced Data (Over Time)

  • Response to promotions
  • Reorder patterns
  • Feedback and ratings

How to Actually Get This Data

1. Make Direct Ordering the Better Option

Customers won't switch channels for nothing. Give them reasons:

  • Lower prices: You're saving 25% on fees - pass some to customers
  • Exclusive items: Menu items only available direct
  • Loyalty rewards: Points that actually mean something
  • Faster service: Priority on direct orders

2. Capture at Every Touchpoint

QR Codes Everywhere:

  • On every takeout bag
  • On receipts
  • On table tents
  • On packaging

A Bitly study found QR code scans increased 433% from 2021 to 2023. Customers are trained to use them.

In-Store Signage:

"Order direct at [yourrestaurant].com - Skip the fees, get rewards"

Receipt Messages:

"Loved your meal? Order direct next time and save 10%: [URL]"

3. The Packaging Insert Strategy

This is the highest-converting tactic we've seen:

Include a card in every delivery order (including third-party):

Thanks for ordering from [Restaurant Name]!

Next time, order direct and get:

✓ 10% off your order

✓ Free loyalty rewards

✓ Same great food, better price

Scan to order direct: [QR Code]

Use code DIRECT10 for 10% off

Restaurants using this tactic report 15-30% of third-party customers convert to direct within 3 months.

What to Do With Customer Data

Automated Reorder Campaigns

Customer hasn't ordered in 30 days? Automatic email:

"Hey [Name], we miss you! Your usual [Favorite Item] is waiting. Here's 15% off your next order."

According to Mailchimp, restaurant email campaigns average 19.77% open rates - higher than most industries.

Birthday Marketing

Collect birthdays, send automated offers:

"Happy Birthday, [Name]! Enjoy a free dessert on us this week."

Birthday emails have 481% higher transaction rates than promotional emails, per Experian.

Preference-Based Upsells

Know a customer always orders vegetarian? Next email features your new vegetarian options - not the steak special.

The Technology Stack

You don't need enterprise software. You need:

1. Direct ordering platform (like DirectOrders) that captures customer data

2. Email marketing tool (Mailchimp, Klaviyo) for campaigns

3. Simple CRM (often built into your ordering platform)

DirectOrders includes:

  • Automatic customer data capture on every order
  • Built-in email campaign tools
  • Customer segmentation by order history
  • Full data export (it's your data - take it anytime)

Your 30-Day Action Plan

Week 1:

  • Set up direct ordering (if not done)
  • Create packaging inserts for all orders
  • Set up "welcome" email for new direct customers

Week 2:

  • Add QR codes to all physical touchpoints
  • Create first-time direct order discount code
  • Set up 30-day "we miss you" automated email

Week 3:

  • Start collecting birthdays at checkout
  • Set up birthday automation
  • Analyze which third-party customers convert

Week 4:

  • Review data, segment customers by value
  • Create VIP program for top 20% of customers
  • Plan ongoing content calendar

The Bottom Line

Every order through a delivery app is a customer you're renting. Every direct order is a customer you own.

In 2026, the restaurants winning are those building real relationships with real customer data - not hoping the algorithms keep sending traffic.


DirectOrders captures customer data automatically on every order. [See how it works](https://www.directorders.com/demo).

Frequently Asked Questions

Delivery apps like DoorDash intentionally keep customer data because these customers are their asset, not yours. When someone orders through DoorDash, the app owns the relationship - they have the name, contact info, and order history. You only see an order number. This is by design to keep you dependent on their platform.

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